Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Dark Depths


No hope, No light. No peace
Chaos reigns supreme
Love lost in fruitless desires
Soul refuses to awaken from it's sleep
Deep, dark abyss sends tears to oblivion
The heart bleeds red drops of passion
A thousand screams echo silently
Lips turn blue in an increasingly white face
Shards of glass pierce the feet that walks
Thorns and leafy blades cuts the skin
Black tunnel refuses to end
I have lost the light within.

-- 12 April 2008/2PM IST

Monday, September 22, 2008

Vitamins for a Healthy Skin

Everyone wants to be beautiful and a glowing skin can and does negate the need of plastering yourself with cosmetics to appear attractive. With our daily hectic lifestyle and inadequate rest, acquiring dn maintaining a healthy, glowing skin seems to be a lost battle. Yet, it takes little to have that all encompassing glow.

A good night’s sleep, adequate intake of water and moderate exercise all helps keep our skin supple and soft but including a few vitamins in our everyday diet can help achieve great results in a relatively less time.

Vitamin A, B, C, K and E are all great for your skin and are easily available in a variety of food that we eat as well as in a few cosmetic products.

If you are having adequate Vitamin A in your diet, then you probably do not need to add supplements. Deficiency in Vitamin A leads to dry, flaky skin and it would be a good idea to include more of this Vitamin in your diet. Vitamin A maintains and repairs your skin tissue and prevents acne. It helps reduce sebum production and is a very effective antioxidant that helps flush out free radicals and toxins from your body thereby improving wrinkles and fine lines. Vitamin A can be found in sweet potatoes, baby carrots, mango, spinach, cantaloupe, milk, and egg yolks. Too much intake of Vitamin A is also not good as it leads to brittle bones and eventually, fractures. Instead, try using topical gels, creams etc to nourish your skin.

Vitamin B Complex is very important for your skin.  Biotin, a nutrient that forms the basis of skin, nail, and hair cells is the most important of all B Vitamins. Deficiency can lead to dermatitis and hair loss. Biotin is present in foods including bananas, eggs, oatmeal, salmon, flounder, chicken, turkey, beef and rice, plus your body also makes some biotin on its own. Niacin, another B Vitamin is also useful in soothing dry, irritated skin and to even out a blotchy skin tone. Niacin helps the epidermis to retain moisture, prevents hyper pigmentation and prevents ultraviolet-induced cancer. Needless to say, B complex is essential in the functioning of your immune system and your antibody production.

Vitamin K. helps in clotting of blood. It helps prevent dark circles if applied topically and is also a great healer of bruises.

Vitamin C can be found in papaya, broccoli, oranges and orange juice, strawberries, kiwi, grapefruit and grapefruit juice, and even raw peppers. It works wonders for your skin by countering the free-radical damage caused by the Sun’s rays (sun burns). It also enhances collagen production, acts as an antioxidant and reduces fine lines and wrinkles, giving you a youthful look.

Vitamin E is found in sunflower seeds, wheat germ, peanut butter, almonds, canned salmon, canned tuna fish, olive oil, and lobster. It helps reduce wrinkles thereby improving the skin’s texture. It is also an antioxidant and has anti-inflammatory properties. Vitamin E moisturizes the skin, making if soft and supple.

Add these wonder Vitamins to your daily diet and use them topically for that glowing, oh-so-beautiful skin and say goodbye to those expensive spa treatments. 

How To Avoid Common Fashion Mistakes


Fashion plays an ever important part in our daily life, yet a few avoidable mistakes could turn a potentially fashionable person into a fashion disaster. The basic rule is NOT to follow fashion trends blindly.  Every person, whether a man or a woman, has different body type, complexion and personality that needs to be kept in mind while dressing.

A well shaped body can carry off much of the designs or styles that are in vogue. If you are slightly on the heavier side, then it would be wise to avoid certain cuts and falls that would accentuate your faults instead of highlighting your assets.

Colors should be chosen according to one’s complexion. Contrary to popular belief, light colors suit lighter skin tones whereas people with a dark skin tone should avoid them altogether as the contrast makes a dark skin look darker. Medium to dark shades are perfect for dark people as they accentuate the skin tone and lend a healthy glow. Too many colors would mar a dress and the wearer. If you do have to mix colors, keep it to a maximum of three to avoid looking, well, funny! Coordinated colors look best on any person.

The same goes for prints. Mixing too many types of prints is a fashion disaster. Keep to a single print for a fashionable look. If you have to mix, then go for a print with bold. For example, wear a printed shirt with a pair of trousers or a skirt with a bold color. Large people should avoid large prints at all costs as they accentuate the size of the wearer.  Also wear prints according to your age group and the occasion. A middle aged person would not look great in bright, fluorescent prints and you definitely don’t want to wear a Hawaiian shirt to work, especially a board meeting! Neither would you want to be seen in a Garfield tie at work!

Stripes are another fashion accessory that can add to your glam quotient if used carefully. A tall person would do well to wear asymmetrical stripes. A short person would do well to wear vertical stripes as it gives an illusion of height. Broader people should avoid horizontal stripes at all costs as they tend to lend breadth to a body. Needless to say, they work wonders for thin people.

Larger busts can be minimized by low ‘V’ shaped necks as well as scoop necks. These also add length to one’s neck. They should avoid high necks and turtlenecks as they add volume to breasts. Halters can be carried off by anyone with a well toned shoulder and arms. Same is the case with sleeveless and short sleeved shirts and dresses. These accentuate your shoulders, arms and neck and draw attention to them. Avoid them if you have heavy, bulky shoulders and arms and a short neck. Heavy arms can attain a slimmer look with a three quarter sleeve instead of a short or full length sleeve.

If you have short, stocky legs then it is better to avoid wearing short skirts and dresses however much they may be ‘in’ this season. Instead try sticking to A-line cuts which will add length and grace to your legs. Avoid low rise jeans as they too make short legs seem even shorter. Instead, opt for hamsters and slightly flared boot cuts and straight legs.

Tight fitting clothes look great as long as you have a great body to flaunt. It does not really add to your sex appeal if you have a tight fitting dress plastered over love handles. Or for that matter wearing super-tight jeans may make your thighs look like thunder-thighs and have the excess fat of your waist roll up and hang over your jeans like a padding of fat and it definitely would not look appealing to you or anyone else for that matter. Wear your size, no matter what it may be. That would help increase your ‘fashionista’ aura.

Last but not the least, wear the right size undergarments. A ‘show’ is not fashionable at all and you really don’t want to flaunt your innerwear brands, whether it’s a Victoria’s Secret or a Playboy! Bra straps and panty hemlines peeping from under your clothes looks tacky to say the least. Leave them for the music videos.

 

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Aarushi...forgive us...



I can't help but write this post for the sweet teenager who was brutally murdered in her own bed.

The world was introduced to Aarushi Talwar, a 13 year old cheerful kid who was found murdered in her own bed. When I first read the news, I felt very sad and helpless. But my feelings of frustration was compounded by the way the police and the media turned this tragic incidence into a circus.

Character assassination of a 13 year old child, who was not around to defend herself was the most despicable thing that the police could do and the media instead of abhorring such salaciousness, lapped up the disgraceful untruth for TRP ratings and increased sales.

Aarushi Talwar is a human being! It is horrifying to see a dead child's reputation being ground to dust. Statements like finding her in an 'objectionable but no compromising' position with the manservant is an insult to the child as well as the slain man Hemraj. What did the police think they were doing? Would the IG and SSP like to hear the same insinuations if they were made against their own children. She was 13 for heaven's sake. If you cannot do your job right, don't slander a child's character!

And the media! I was disgusted when a Hindi media channel had 'specialists' talk about her 'friendship' with boys. Shut the crap up you morons! You expect an old haggard to understand this generation where kids do not look at gender before making friends. This is a healthier generation who believes in friendship ....this ain't the 'can i fraaanship with you' kind of morons we are talking about. These are normal children. So she was friends with three boys ...and that gave the psychotic media and police to judge that she was of 'loose' character. Get a life! And the way this old man was talking about friends...'uski teen ladko se dosti thi'....thi toh kya? what about it? Cant a child be friends with the other gender? What's wrong in that? Cant these prehistoric 'analysts' with their stupid notions just SHUT UP!Give some respect to the departed soul. Don't slander her name. Don't juxtapose a fictional character on her and try to erase her truth.

The I&B ministry has issues with FTV but is silent on this ongoing dirty slaughter of a small child. This is the worst form on indecency being telecast on TV as well as print and you Mr. Minister find no voice to stop this. Where has your conscience and sense of righteousness disappeared now? Now don't you feel like a guardian who should prevent his children from viewing immoral stuff! Hang your heads in shame!

Honour killing! If that is so celebrated then kill the media, kill the police...kill the society that allows such brutal smothering of a late child's memories. Then we might be able to restore the honour Aarushi deserves.

I am ashamed and so should you be and hope for the forgiveness of the much wronged Aarushi, her parents and Hemraj. May their soul rest in peace.

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Boredom


I'm bored!


The seemingly exciting life where I drive a big car to and from work, spend nine solid hours in a glamorous, awe-inspiring organization, the title of my designation, my good looking husband acquired from a love marriage, the endless shopping trips to the glitzy malls...all this and more has somehow lost the sheen. Barring ofcourse the only thing that still has the same good ol'charm...hubby.


Seriously, I'm dead bored. A zombie with a mask pulled across my face with invisible hands stretching and squishing and pulling it in all directions to portray emotions that I dont feel within. Even the slits called eyes produce the saline liquid from time to time, making my eyes go red and thus successfully presenting the illusion of tears.


I live life mechanically. It goes on and on while the clock on the wall sings tick-tock-tick-tock with mathematical precision. The sun rises and sets...handing over the shift to the less bright moon, who has to slog all night. Sometimes, both of them take sick leaves and the often elusive cloud takes over. I see it all with bored eyes. Infact, even the word 'bored' bores me!


Not my spells, not my Tarot cards or runes or racing ahead in my fast car holds interest.


Life's a long boring tread...and I walk on, hoping to find some exitement somewhere.


In this magnum opus of boredom, letching men and bitching women provide for the occassional 'salsa' to the nachos...and an extremely distasteful salsa at that.


The long tread continues...I think I should write a book. Eureka!